How Do We Measure Success?

October 2, 2017October 2, 2017 / doubledacres / Leave a comment

“To laugh often and much; To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Emerson wrote this sometime in the mid to late 1800s I believe. I came across it a couple of years ago and it came up on my radar again. In today’s world and my age I consider just waking up on the right side of the dirt as a sign that I have succeeded. If he were to write that today I really wonder what he would have said?

………This is to have succeeded. In life? Love? School? I am going to approach it as “in life.” What is success? According to Merriam-Webster, outcome result; degree or measure of succeeding; attainment of wealth, favor or eminence; one that succeeds.

I racked my little brain and I couldn’t think of anyone that I can say is breathing easier because I am alive. As far as “a redeemed social condition” I had to wrestle with this one and I am not sure I have the right idea however I think Emerson is referring to a certain social group (culturally, politically, economically, etc, really guessing here)one may have helped beat gambling addiction, alcoholism etc. in one of those groups.

To appreciate beauty. Wow, now that could be a loaded gun. I know how society seems to label beauty, usually they don’t look past the outside beauty. I am of the opinion that beauty is the whole package. One can be beautiful on the outside but so ugly on the inside. I see people that are bullied, ridiculed and treated like low class citizens because they may carry a few extra pounds, a noticeable scar, birth mark etc.. The majority of folks just seem to look at a person on the outside without finding out what their heart is made of. They could have a heart of gold and no one ever notices. Seems so sad and such a waste. If you are a person that looks at the “whole” person and not just the outer shell I truly believe that is a true sign of success and you have my utmost respect. So many people are incapable of it.

Oh my gosh , the light bulb just went off!! I thought of someone that breathes easier because I am alive. My doctor. I mean how did I overlook that. After all if I was on the other side of the dirt my doctor would lose that income. After all the money is in the treatment not the cure.

Aw, the betrayal of false friends. Now this is one that can hurt. What is that little saying going around the internet, oh yeah. The only reason some folks are alive is because I don’t want to go to prison, or something like that anyway. That can be a tough pill to swallow. There are some really cold people in the world and they don’t seem to have any problem hurting other people. I think some folks just crave the feeling. Here is another real sign of success I think. If one can truly forgive a false friend that betrayed them I think that is another true sign of success.

I don’t know if it because I am getting old and less trusting, it just seems harder and harder to find the best in others. There is so much dishonesty and hate in the world today that it is hard to trust. To find the best in others you are going to have to trust them. In the past I have recommended horse trainers. These were trainers that I thought they knew what they were doing. Boy was I wrong. I have saw what I thought was good in a lot of folks and just set myself up for a hard fall. With me it is a tough one and if it is something that I have to accomplish to have succeeded in life, I may be running a little short on making it.

Once again thank you for reading my blog. I hope you enjoyed it. I truly wish everyone a successful and prosperous life. One filled with success and good times. Spread the love!

Imagination: A Good Thing to Possess

September 26, 2017 / doubledacres / Leave a comment

I named this rock formation “Alien Rock”

I didn’t get on the river until around 4:30 p. m. and I knew I wouldn’t have time to do a lot of fishing. I did realize that the retreating sunlight should present some great photo ops so I began looking for those shots that would show the amazing beauty of Mother Nature.

“Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

My mind was working overtime and my imagination was like that of a 60s “flower child” who had taken a hallucinogenic drug. I took several pics of the rock I had named “Alien Rock” trying to capture what I was seeing in my mind. I think the above pic was the best picture to portray what I was seeing and I hope you can see it too.

To me it looks like an alien’s head slowly ascending out of the water just revealing its eyes and nostrils that had just broke the surface of the water. I imagined it rising completely out of the water revealing a body as tall as the bluffs around it.

Well, maybe I am losing it. Maybe the crazy stuff going on in the world is finally taken its toll on me. Maybe I have drank too many Jack and Cokes in my life time. Naw, one can’t drink too many Jack and Cokes. I got it, I need to quit drinking the kool-ade! That’s it!

“I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than history. That dreams are more powerful than facts. That hope always triumphs over experience. That laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death.” – Robert Fulghum; All I Really Need To Know I Learned in Kindergarten: Thoughts On Common Things

Was the alien there extracting lead from underneath the river bed; after all this is part of the old lead belt, or was he looking for a McDonald’s fish filet sandwich? Maybe he is stashing green kryptonite in case he ever had a run in with Superman? Was he a game warden in disguise spying on me. Oh so many possibilities!

Hello, earth to Wayne. Well back to regular programming. Once I figured out what the alien was doing I began floating back to what the locals call the “Bone Hole” and fished as I went. I managed to catch a small largemouth and several small perch. I think the alien must have scared the fish off. Oh crap, it is getting dark. Where did that alien go? I am skeered I tells ya!

“Logic will get you from A to Z; Imagination will get you everywhere”. – Albert Einstein

I hope you enjoyed today’s blog. I am a firm believer that great artists ( painters, writers, musicians, etc.) are full of imagination. I feel it is a must to be really good at what you do. I think we need to emphasize it more than we do. One can not suffer from too much imagination; well maybe I need to rethink that one.

Thanks for taking the time to read my blog. It is deeply appreciated. Remember to spread the love.

My Sanctuary

September 24, 2017 / doubledacres / 3 Comments

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“The gross heathenism of civilization has generally destroyed nature, and poetry, and all that is spiritual.” – John Muir

It was a little late in the evening when I decided to load the yak and do some fishing on the Big River. I spent more time taking photos than fishing. There was a hint of the approaching fall season on the leaves of the trees. The temp however left one shaking their head in disbelief, as I did, wondering if we were going to bypass fall this year. I could see that my sanctuary was preparing itself for a dance with autumn.

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“Fall has always been my favorite season. The time when everything bursts with its last beauty, as if nature had been saving up all year for the grand finale.” – Lauren DeStefano, Wither (The Chemical Garden, #1)

The river is my sanctuary. I feel safe there. I feel content and satisfied no matter how bad life has been to me. You can talk to the river and if you listen very carefully you will here its answer manifested in the sounds of the rapids or the croaking bull frogs. The river has been responsible for some great concerts in the past. It usually starts with a choir of crickets and bull frogs, followed by the bass created by the beaver slamming its tail upon the water. Then if you are lucky you will hear a pack of coyotes join in with their howl and high pitched yips. If there is a full moon overhead reflecting its beautiful light upon the river; then it is a perfect night.

In my sanctuary I recharge my spirit and cleanse my soul. I become one with the river. If you learn to use Mother Nature’s river you will be surprised at what it can do for your self esteem. If you have never meditated on the river you have no idea how you can really cleanse the garbage from your mind that you acquired by the negativity that tried to creep into your life.

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The next time you are on the river slow down and observe what really goes on. Focus on all the wild life that lives within the banks of the river. Do yourself a favor and even start keeping a Journal of your time on the river. Notice how the riparian system works to make the river better. There are so many things that work together to keep the river alive. If you have never been on the river then by all means make plans to visit a river near you.

As a point of clarification, I really do like all rivers even the big ones. I prefer the Ozark streams to the Mississippi or the Missouri. The Show Me State has been blessed with several pristine streams. The Bourbeuse, Current, Jacks Fork, Meramec, Courtois, Black, Eleven Point just to name a few.

Now for the part that gets my panties in a wad and always will. PUHLEASE! Pack your trash out with you. Don’t leave it laying around on the sand and gravel bars. NEWS FLASH!!!! One does not need a special permit to buy trash bags. They are readily available and if you need instructions as how to use them I would be glad to give you instructions. No one has ever reported any deaths that can be attributed to picking up your trash.

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“Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better.” – Albert Einstein

John Muir was known as “John of the Mountains” . He loved the wilderness but had a special place in his heart for the mountains. My friend David Tripp calls me the “river sage” which in return I usually give a pretty good chuckle. I love the wilderness also but I call the river my sanctuary.

I want to thank everyone that took the time to read my blog. Thank you. (All photographs were taken by me.)

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Monsanto Lake

September 20, 2017September 20, 2017 / doubledacres / Leave a comment

Lake Monsanto – St. Joe Park -Park Hills, MO

St. Joe Park is located in the old “lead Belt” area and is made up of 8,238 acres that was donated to Missouri in 1976 by the St. Joe Minerals Corp after ceasing operations in 1972. It has an off-road vehicle area, two campgrounds, equestrian camping and trails, hiking and bicycling trail, picnic sites and lakes for swimming and fishing.

The historic mill buildings still stand on the site and it has been designated as Missouri Mines State Historic Site. They also have a museum that houses some of the old mining equipment along with an impressive collection of geological specimens.

Lake Monsanto

There are four stocked lakes in St. Joe. Monsanto is the largest that is 30 feet at the deepest point and around 25 acres. Then there is Apollo Lake, JoLee Lake and Pim Lake which is the smallest. Boats can be used in all four but only electric motors are allowed. They do rent kayaks and canoes. One drawback to me, that definitely keeps me from getting too attached to this place, is the hours of operation. From April – September the lake opens at 7 a.m. and closes at 8 a.m.; October – March 7 a.m. to 5 p.m.. I really wish they would reconsider their hours.

If you want to fish Apollo or JoLee lakes, you must obtain a fishing pass from the park office. There are no launch fees. One can catch bass, crappie, catfish and an assortment of pan fish or perch. The park uses a “slot limit” of 12 inches to 15 inches for bass. You can keep anything under 12 and over 15 but you can’t keep fish that fall in the slot. One practice they do that I do like is that they pass a card so you can record your catch of the day so that they can have an idea of what is being caught. It is done anonymously.

“Everybody needs beauty as well as bread, places to play in and pray in, where nature may heal and give strength to body and soul.” – John Muir

Lake Monsanto

I have fished Lake Monsanto three times. It is a peaceful place through the week however on the weekend it can draw a crowd. The lake has a lot of mill foil in it and a lot of standing timber and a multitude of objects to get your line hung up on.

Largemouth bass caught

Channel Cat I caught a couple of weeks ago.

I prefer to use a Rapala floating minnow. If you watch what you are doing you don’t get hung up as bad. I also use the live bait mode also: night crawlers. If I am out there just to relax I just use an empty hook. On a scale of 1 to 10 I would give Lake Monsanto a 5. If the state would change the fishing hours to allow early and late evening hours I could learn to like it a little more. (Hint, hint) Maybe even issue a special permit if a person wanted to do some late night catfishing.

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Someone asked me the other day if I ever get tired of fishing. For the record, “no”. I can never get enough fishing. When I am fishing I can feel my spirit feeding off the positive energy of Mother Nature. I sleep better when I have had a full day of fishing.

Monsanto Lake

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A Little Humor From the Barn

September 14, 2017June 18, 2022 / doubledacres / 3 Comments

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“Humor is mankind’s greatest blessing.” – Mark Twain

This a true story however the names have been changed to protect the pranksters. No humans were hurt and there was said that you could hear equine laughter throughout the barn.

One morning some years back, I arrived at ABC Stables where I had scheduled 4 complete sets of shoes. I backed the trailer into the area set up for farriers and I began setting up to shoe horses.

The barn had hired a barn manager about 3 years before. He was an old cowboy who had paid his dues. Quite the jovial sort of fellar. Everyone called him Bubba. He really enjoyed a good chaw of tobacco and was an excellent horse handler. He was there to hold the first horse I was shoeing that morning because sometimes he didn’t particularly like my cologne or something and would make my life as miserable as a horse possibly could.

Now we are down to the last character in the story. He was kind of like Tiny Tim, Dirty Harry and Barney Fife all rolled into one. We called him Jim Bob. Now Jim Bob had just recently bought a 15.1 hand buckskin quarter horse. Now it just so happened that he bought it off a fella by the name of John Boy. Now John Boy was such a crook that he could make a used car salesman and a politician seem like outstanding citizens.

Now John Boy had told Jim Bob that the horse he sold him was 15 years old and only rode to bingo games by a little old lady from Pasadena. Well Jim Bob had the vet out to float his horse’s teeth and he asked the vet how old he thought the horse was. The vet without hesitation said 20 years old. Now Jim Bob had a slight dilemma, how old is ole Dobbin? This worked overtime on the mind of Jim Bob and the real problem was that Dobbin wasn’t registered so there was no record of his birth. All this is what led to the happenings in the barn on this particular morning.

I was shoeing the horse who on that morning was giving me fits because all I had was regular ole shoes and no “Air Secretariats”. Bubba was doing his best to make the ole horse stand still and it was about to get on our last nerve. Then, along came Jim Bob crying like some 3 year old child who had their ice cream stolen right out of their hands. Oh woe is me, I have a horse and I don’t know how old he is.

Well I wasn’t really in the mood to deal with him soooooooooooooo, DRUM ROLL, yep I said it, “Jim Bob there is one way to tell how old that horse is, count the anal rings and that will give you a real good idea how old he is.” Well Bubba almost swallered his tobacco and he chimes in, “Damn I forgot all about that!”

Jim Bob is standing there looking at me with this goofy look on his face and says, “Please tell me, how does one determine the age of a horse by counting the anal rings?” I said, well you know how a tree grows a ring for one year of age. A horse grows an anal ring for every 5 years of age. By now he is looking at me like I am crazier than a bedbug. He then says I can’t even believe that I talk to you two at which time Bubba and I blurt out at the same time, but it is the truth. He turns and walks away cussing us the whole time.

I was just getting ready to nail a shoe on the second horse I had to do when Bubba starts saying, lookie there, quick look. So I put the horse’s foot down and look down the shed row and………..yep, there was Jim Bob holding the horse’s tail up with one hand and running his finger around the rectum of Dobbin looking for anal rings.

Needless to say Bubba and I begin laughing so hard that Bubba almost swallered his tobacco again. I had tears running down my cheeks I was laughing so hard. Then…yep Jim Bob caught us laughing and was madder than a wet hen. He cussed us up one side and down the other. He didn’t talk to me for three months.

I hope you enjoyed my story. Thanks for reading and remember to spread the love.

Autumn: A Season of Beauty

September 12, 2017September 12, 2017 / doubledacres / Leave a comment

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“Autumn……….the year’s loveliest smile.” – William Cullen Bryant/ Indian Summer

As autumn nears I get as excited as a child on Christmas Eve except I have visions of “frost on the pumpkin” in my head. I can smell the wood smoke as it wafts through the cool crisp air. I can smell the aroma of chili as it drifts upon the breeze and searches for an unsuspected nose. Tis the season for beans and cornbread. It will soon be time to don the hoodies. Autumn, my season of choice by far.

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Autumn is a busy time for Mother Nature’s critters. Squirrels and chipmunks are burying everything they can. The tiny Hummingbird begins its trip south. Geese can be seen in a “v” formation headed south for the winter. Bear begin gorging themselves with food to prepare themselves for their long winter nap. The days become shorter and the nights become colder as Mother Earth prepares for Old Man Winter to arrive.

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Final Autumn

Maple leaves turn black in the courtyard.

Light drives lower and one blue jay crams

our cold memories out past the sun,

each time your traces come past the shadows

and visit under my looking-glass fingers

that lift and block out the sun.

Come – I’ll trace you one final autumn,

and you can trace your last homecoming

into the snow or the sun.

Annie Finch

Autumn also signals the beginning of the holidays and family gatherings. The smell of baked turkey and dressing, pumpkin and sweet potato pie. Hot chocolate for those cold autumn nights and warm apple cider. Friends gathered around a bonfire talking about what they did “last summer” and all ready making plans for the “new summer”. Its sitting in front of the fire reading your favorite book. It is the season of Thankfulness for all the things you have to be grateful for. Autumn, my favorite season of all.

“Delicious autumn! My very soul is wedded to it, and if I were a bird I would fly above the earth seeking the successive autumns.” – George Eliot

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Yep, with autumn beginning we know Old Man Winter isn’t far off. Thanks for reading my blog I really appreciate it. I hope you enjoyed it. Spread the love.

Could You Survive?

September 11, 2017 / doubledacres / Leave a comment

My friends, things are getting wild in the world. Earthquakes, massive fires, threats of war, rioting, hurricanes, etc.. If a massive earthquake rattled our country or an EMP hit our nation and destroyed the nation’s infrastructure and you had to rely on yourself to survive do you think you would be able to do it? Would you be able to grow your own food and preserve it?

“There are two problems for our species’ survival – nuclear war and environmental catastrophe – and we’re hurtling towards them knowingly.” – Noam Chomsky

I know some of you are rolling your eyes saying the old man has lost it saying, “That ain’t ever going to happen.” I hope it doesn’t. But I would rather be safe than sorry. Oh my gosh. Just think about not being able to use your cell phone and no internet service. People will be jumping out of the windows like they did during the stock market crash of 1929. Imagine walking into the grocery store and the shelves are bare. Chaos on the streets will be rampant. TEOTWAWKI -the end of the world as we know it; so to speak.

I was lucky enough to grow up in the country. My mom and dad were avid gardeners and my mom canned the vegetables. Hunted and fished, so we always had meat in the freezer. My grandma also canned fish and meat and taught me how to save seed for the next season. We even canned sausage before the microwave.

Personally I think the schools need to add a few subjects in school such as gardening, canning and a basic survival course. This is something that would be beneficial to our children. Just think of the stories about people who got lost or their vehicle broke down and they were left stranded. What if they would have had these courses? Would the outcome have been different? I don’t know for sure however it wouldn’t have hurt.

“We don’t even know how strong we are until we are forced to bring that hidden strength forward. In times of tragedy, of war, of necessity, people do amazing things. The human capacity for survival and renewal is awesome.” Isabel Allende

Fires in California and Montana destroys thousands of acres. Irma and Harvey mark the first time two Atlantic category 4 U.S. landfalls have occurred in the same year. Mexico gets hit with its strongest earthquake in a century. We have to be prepared for the unexpected.

The purpose of this blog isn’t to spread gloom and doom. It is however an attempt to encourage you to be ready for anything mother nature or governments throw at you. If you live in hurricane areas, have an escape plan worked out. Have on hand at least a 30 day supply of food and water.

Thank you for reading my blog. I appreciate it very much. Again I stress the purpose of this blog isn’t to preach gloom and doom but is instead an attempt to get you to think, could I survive?

Spread the Love!!

September 10, 2017September 10, 2017 / doubledacres / Leave a comment

“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That’s what I hope to give you forever.” – The Notebook

Some one asked me the other day what I meant by “spread the love”. What is your passion? Is it reading? Fishing? Equines? Cooking? What ever your passion is “spread the love.” Let the whole world know.

Don’t keep it to yourself. Spread it around so everyone can see what your passion is. If it is crossword puzzles or taking a horse back ride on a moon lit night. I don’t care if it is “makeup artist” or librarian. Keep a journal of the things you think are important. Even if you think it is unimportant. Maybe it is to you but someone may learn from your passion for fishing, mending fences or perfectly content sitting at home. Maybe someone is depressed because they seem to be so content sitting at home doing nothing then they find out from you that you do too and all of a sudden because of the relief you provided them, they are ready to face the cold cruel world again.

Don’t be afraid to compliment someone. That may be just what they need at the time. Say “Hi” to people. Be kind to others and help each other. Read a good book lately? If you have then share it with the people around you. It is about you taking what you love and spreading it around and sharing it with others. The sweet part about it is it doesn’t cost you a penny. Nothing!

So you ask, why spread the love? What difference does it make? Good questions. You may never know if it touched anyone or not. See the elderly couple sitting in the corner booth? They look as if something is bothering them so when you go up to pay for your meal you also pay for theirs. Then you leave without saying a word. Did your act of spreading the love touch them? You will never know.

See the young lady staring at you as you do some sketches in the park? She seems really interested in what you are doing. Art is your passion so you call her over and share your sketch with her. You can see her face light up. Did you sharing your artwork with her touch her life? You will never know. However, what if I told you that the day you showed that young girl your work she became so mesmerized with it that she grew up to be a famous artist? Just because you took a few minutes to spread the love, you changed that young lady’s life.

One of my passions is photography. I usually have a pic or two in my blogs. Sometimes they don’t even have anything in common with what I am writing about. I put them in there hoping that they might inspire someone to pick up a camera and find a passion for photography. Spread the love!

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I hope I have been able to impress upon you that by taking the time to “spread the love” you are making the world a better place. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog. I hope you enjoyed it. Surround yourself with positive things and stay focused on your dreams. What ever you do, when you are following that dream “spread the love”!

“I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious.” – Albert Einstein

Friendship Explored

September 4, 2017September 4, 2017 / doubledacres / 3 Comments

“The strong bond of friendship is not always a balanced equation; friendship is not always about giving and taking in equal shares. Instead, friendship is grounded in a feeling that you know exactly who will be there for you when you need something, no matter what or when.” – Simon Sinek

Close your eyes. I want you to think of your friends. Bounce them off your mind and think of where you met them. How long have you known them? Out of all of them who is your BFF? Do you do a good job of staying in touch with them? Does your BFF live across the country or across the street? How often do you get together with old friends? Most importantly remember that distance is no excuse. I know I have let that be an excuse myself. As far as distance; it is only as far as we let it be.

“A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him, I may think aloud.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson “Friendship”

“Two elements that go to the composition of friendship, each so sovereign, that I can detect no superiority in either, no reason why either should be first named.” Truth and Tenderness, according to Emerson.

As I meander down the back roads of my life I have been lucky enough to forge a few friendships along the way. I have seen friends turn their backs on each other, throw each other under the bus, and much more. Have you ever felt you were getting cheated by a friend? That they just don’t give as much as you do to the friendship. Then you really need to take a long hard look at yourself.

“There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.” – Thomas Aquinas

Then we have the fair weather friends. You know the one that is there when everything is ok and you don’t need anything. The friend that is always looking for a handout. Let us not forget the one that stabs you in the back every chance they can.

I know I covered all these things in a blog I wrote a while back. I decided to revisit friendship because I just don’t feel that folks really know what friendship involves. I am not talking about a friend as in an acquaintance. I am talking the BFF. The kind of friend that you don’t keep track of who bought the last time. The friend that needs a kidney and you are a match so the search is over. The friend that mows your grass because you were laid up in the hospital. The friend that you share your closely guarded deer sausage with. The friend that you go read Emerson or Thoreau too every day not even knowing if they can hear you.

“True” friendship is to be cherished. That kind of friendship is a gift. Don’t abuse it. Don’t take it for granted. I see so many people who use “friendship” so loosely and lightly. When is the last time you saw your “bestie”? Can you remember? Folks I would just like to point out that there is no guarantee that your friend is going to “rise and shine” in the morning or for a matter of fact, yourself. You haven’t heard from your BFF, but YOU called last time and it is their time to call now. Really? Is this how you treat friendship? Pick up the phone and call them. I promise no one will put you on a hit list or in jail. Warning: Tomorrow may never come.

Thanks for reading. I appreciate it immensely. Spread the love.

Life Is What You Make It! Be Happy

August 31, 2017August 31, 2017 / doubledacres / Leave a comment

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“Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don’t wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it is at your work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.” – Earl Nightingale

Henry David Thoreau told us in Walden, “Our life is frittered away by detail. Simplify, simplify, simplify! I say let your affairs be as two or three, and not a hundred or a thousand; instead of a million count half a dozen, and keep your accounts on your thumbnail.”

Now what an idea. It seems we want our children to participate in every sport there is. I think it is kind of sad that these young people do not really get a chance to really enjoy life going on around them. They don’t have the time to watch a simple sunset or sunrise. Do they ever get the chance to participate in a family meal?

Then there are those who become workaholics and get so wrapped up in their work that they really never learn how fun life can be. They miss out on so much in their family life and all because “they want their children to have it better than they did.” Really? Then start eating together and discussing each other’s day, start taking vacations in the great outdoors. Hug your children and tell them you love them. Most importantly teach them to love themselves and have confidence in themselves.

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“Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present.” – Jim Rohn

So many people look at happiness is a thing of the future, after Johnny graduates, when I get the time, when I get some bills paid off, etc.. Ok, when you get up in the morning, if happiness doesn’t exist in your life then I want you to look in the mirror and say, ” Today is going to be filled with happiness and the only way that can change is I HAVE to let someone change it.” There are so many things you can fill your life with to nurture the happiness in your life. I have posted some of those things under my pics.

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These are a few examples of what I do. Believe in yourself and assign yourself a dream. A dream that will fill your heart, soul and spirit with pure joy. Live for that happiness now and not for 20 years in the future. You are your own boss and you are in charge of your happiness. Surround yourself with people who are genuinely happy and will lift you up and not pull you down. For those of you that suffer from no happiness in your life don’t give up. Find it. Nurture it. Discover the healing power of happiness.

Thanks for reading my blog. It means a lot. To those of you who take the time to make comments, thank you so much for taking the time to do so. Spread the love!