“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.” – Dalai Lama
As I lay here listening to the hum of the fan in the window and the little peepers off in the distance serenading the night, my mind wanders back to the teen age years of my life. It was a simple time. Life was good.
School was much different because the parents didn’t blame the teacher for little Johnny’s behavior or grades. The responsibility was placed squarely on the shoulders of little Johnny and he didn’t get a trophy unless he earned it. “Earned it.” Isn’t that quite a concept? When did it all change? For the life of me I can’t remember. Why? I was told one time by a child psychologist that it was done out of compassion for the losers. Really?
Unlike today, kids could stay out past dark and not have to worry. They could walk down to the local grocery and buy a gallon of milk and walk home without having to worry about being abducted. Don’t get me wrong. It wasn’t a perfect world but there seemed to be a lot less crime then. The real question is why? Was it due to the way the news was reported or was there more love and compassion then?
From my personal experience I believe it was the latter. People had more respect for life then. Folks helped one another then instead of turning a cold shoulder and walking away. They shared food, clothes or whatever they could. Not everybody did but the majority of the people I knew did.
“Being loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” – Lao Tzu
Something that I don’t see too much of these days is respect. I am blown away by the way children talk to their parents. They use words that they shouldn’t even have in their vocabulary. Words that would make a sailor blush I tells ya. See a lot more tantrums being thrown in the stores when the child doesn’t get what he/she wants. This usually results in the child getting what he/she wants. Sooooo is he/she going to throw a tantrum when they don’t get their way in the work force?
“The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others.” – Albert Schweitzer
Compassion according to Merriam Webster: sympathetic consciousness of others’ distress together with a desire to alleviate it. I am of the opinion that “true” compassion is hard to find in today’s society. What about the donations that went out to the 9/11 victims you say? Really? Myself I really don’t think of that as compassion. I felt it was more people expressing their patriotism than anything else.
Maybe I just expect too much out of people. Maybe I am still caught up in the simplicity of life in the 60s and 70s. I still have the vision of our family dinners where we actually talked to one another and asked how our day had been. Compassion and love were abundant. The world wasn’t perfect back then but it was far closer to perfection than it is now. Maybe new technology was the trade off. “Pappa tell me ’bout the good ole days.
Well thank you for taking the time to read my blog. I hope you enjoyed it. Love one another and remember the feeling of compassion and don’t be afraid to show it.
Don’t squat with your spurs, be kind to one another and share the love. God bless you one and all.